The Wild Kindness: Cultivating Erotic Connection in Daily Life
With Elfi Dillon-Shaw and Gary Dillon
Open Dates
Discover, Engage, Learn, Mend…
Discover tools to dispel outdated messages about sexuality, enhance body pleasure, practice communicating wants and needs through lighthearted, fun experiments for erotic play and explore available resources to enhance your erotic life.
Engage in intelligent and friendly conversations about eros, intimacy, sex and spirit.
Learn to navigate sexual energy in relationships skillfully and with kindness, and how stress and life cycles impact our sexuality.
Mend the rift between spirit and sexuality to embrace both.
This program will benefit couples who:
- Grieve the loss of erotic play or sex in their relationship
- Want to sustain and expand their connection
- Want to update their understanding of sexuality
- Want to open to the flow of life-giving energy
- Want to experience the benefits of erotic energy in their physical, mental and spiritual health
Partnerships of all genders welcome.
A private session for each couple is included as part of the program.
Schedule:
Your program begins with dinner at 6pm and your first session at 7:30pm
Daily schedule:
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- Breakfast 8:00 – 9:00am
- Morning session 9:15am to noon
- Lunch noon to 1:00pm
- Afternoon session 3:00 – 6:00pm
- Dinner 6:00 – 7:00pm
- Evening session 7:30 – 9:30pm
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Afternoon and evening sessions can vary. Your program finishes with lunch on the last day
Program Leaders:
Elfi Emaya Dillon Shaw and Gary Kekoa Dillon (heartcoretouch.com) have been teaching sexuality workshops at the Haven Institute on Gabriola Island and other venues. They have studied Tantric and Taoist erotic traditions, and the esoteric teachings of western wisdom schools. Gary practises Lomilomi Hawaiian Bodywork when he is not painting in his studio. He holds a master’s degree in Counselling Psychology and has studied Theology and Transformational Movement Therapy. Elfi’s work includes Integrative Bodywork and Somatic Sexuality Education and served on the Senior Faculty Team of the Body Electric School, she studied Sex Therapy Intensive at Guelph University and Sexual Health Education from Options for Sexual Health in BC. Gary and Elfi are both students of Queer Tantra with Dr. Rudy Ballantine. Gary and Elfi consider themselves “Advocates for Healthy Relationships” and work with groups and with private clients.
Feel free to contact Elfi and Gary for more information about course content: Tel: 250 247 9504 or email: info@heartcoretouch.com
About the Leaders
Elfi Dillon-Shaw
Elfi Dillon-Shaw DipC is a massage practitioner, bodyworker and educator with 20 years' experience fostering experiences of pleasure and well-being. She teaches programs on sexuality, body practices and stress management, including Sexual Intelligence, Stirring the Cauldron, and Eros and Intimacy (with her husband Gary Dillon). She has worked at The Haven since 1983. Website: Heart Core Touch
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Gary Dillon MA has studied psychology, theology, and movement therapy, with an emphasis on Esalen massage and Hawaiian shamanic bodywork. He has wide experience in Taoist and Western esoteric transformations of Eros and offers a renewed and modern vision of sexuality and spirituality moving together. He co-leads Eros and Intimacy, Sex and Spirit for Couples with his wife Elfi Dillon-Shaw, […]
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